Do
the following statements describe you? I want all that God, in His
love, had planned for me. I want a mind that can think and function,
rather than simply “cope and respond.” I want a real intimacy with a
Holy God that will transcend and replace any unhealthy fear and need of
man. I want all that Christian Liberty has to offer. I dream of a
home that the spirit, not just the image of a Christian family.
On
the other hand, you may want more wisdom to address life’s struggles.
Do your family dynamics seem confusing, if not stressful? Do the
conflicts at work, church or within your community leave you in tears,
alarmed or intimidated? Have moved from the crisis, yet still left
with the wounds? Do you long for discernment of good and evil and how
to apply righteousness to it?
Some
women find themselves in serious trouble. Have you repeatedly tried to
obtain help without much success? Are you in crisis and don’t know
where to turn? Do you think God has forgotten, didn’t hear or doesn’t
care about your private pain?
Have
you tried desperately to maintain the godly Christian image and
marriage hoping that your cover would never be ‘blown’? Are issues of
indecision, addictions, conflict, and finances unresolved in your life?
If you
answered “yes” to any of these questions, then this class is for you.
Hebrews 5:14 addresses the importance of feeding on the meat, not just
the milk, of God’s Word.
Doctors we are not. But constant use of
the Word trains the mind to be able to discern the difference
between good and evil and what to do about it. How to apply
righteousness to it must be fully understood! It is a skill no
Christian woman should be without!
The most important focus on our classes is to develop an empowering intimacy with God. We have originate our lives and relationships around this vital first love, [Rev. 2:2-5]. It reorients expectations, reactions and conforms our desires to HIS optimized desire for our good. [Rom. 8:27-30; Eph. 1:11-12] It is counter-intuitive to all of worldly reason, yet profoundly empowering and freeing.
Additionally, through this amazing love, Women,
wives and mothers can be ‘trained’ by God’s Word in order to address
the joys and sorrows within their homes and lives. God did not intend
for us to submit to sin, but to Him! We should know how to answer the
issues of life with grace and dignity. We must also be thoroughly
schooled in righteousness, kindness and love.
If
abandoned, we have a right and a duty to know what our options and laws
are, regarding our situation, both civilly and ecclesiastically.
Resources within the church and community are available, if needed.
Knowing how to work within the shepherding process will go a long way
toward making sense of your issues, seen or unforeseen. Remember, God promises never to abandon you, [Jn. 14:18].
Many in the Christian community feel that women do not have rights. However the scriptures are full
of the rights that God intended women to have to the full benefit of
their husbands, children, church family and communities as well as
themselves. See [Job 36:6-7; Is. 54:4-6]
Understanding
relational dynamics in light of God’s Word is important.
It is a sort of ‘Bible boot camp’ with a lot of hugging. This to
describe the biblical common sense approach to ‘non-sense’! We are not
taking God’s Word lightly. Women are entitled to all the promises,
instruction and precious love found in God through His Holy Spirit and
His Word! HIS abundant plan contrasts what the enemy plans, [Jn. 10:10].
Commonly asked Questions and Answers:
Is this a wives class only?
No.
While issues found only in marriage or courtship is covered, it is much
more than that. This program is for all women wanting to develop
biblical relational skills for use with all of her family, friends and
associates. It is about wisdom and common sense! These are issues
that appeal to everyone. Your needs may be great or small or you may
just want to know all you can as a woman of God and this class is a
part of that process.
How is it different from typical Bible studies for wives?
Subjects
covered in this class are not usually discussed in the typical bible
study for wives. The focus of this class is to understand relational
dynamics in light of God’s Word. It is a sort of “Bible Boot camp”
with a lot of hugging. This describes the biblical common sense
approach to “nonsense.” God wants His daughters’ to be mature,
functioning, and responsible adults. We do not take God’s Word
lightly. Training on how to discern sinful behavior and what to do
about it are added with strong Biblical common sense.
Will I learn how to say things differently or in a better way?
Effective
dialogue is a critical component to good communication and is therefore
an integral part of applying righteousness to any given situation.
[Proverbs 15: 23] We encourage all students to jot down their dialogue
questions and bring them to class.
What is the purpose of the class?
To: Develop an intimacy with our “first love,” God.
To: Discern the difference between good and evil
To: Set Boundaries with grace and dignity
What if I need more help than the class can provide?
Any
needs outside the scope of this class, such as addictions, professional
counseling and shepherding, can be outsourced. A Care Team could be
formed for a more comprehensive program to suit your needs.
How long is the course?
It
is on-going; however we do encourage you to attend a minimum of 6-8
classes without skipping. This is because not all issues are covered
within a few classes so you might not realize the benefits for your
specific needs immediately. For example, if a woman is in crisis, she
will only want her problem addressed right then and there. Give
yourself time to learn all that will be presented. Change is a
process, not an act. There are many underlying factors that may have
contributed to the current crisis and these must be processed and
understood. Thus empowered, you are able to make wise and godly
choices.
Is there a charge?
Currently there is no charge above the basic costs of the materials used at the time.
What do I need to bring?
Bring
a 3-ring binder and your Bible, paper and pen. Class lessons will be
ready for your notebook. They are written to cover a series of classes
so that you can study at any pace you chose.
Can I bring a friend?
Yes, all are welcome. Just call and let the course leader know.
Who produces this course?
The
course is produced through AWAKE, Inc. that stands for Acquiring Wisdom
And Knowledge Excellently. The concept was born out of a crisis within
the Founder’s own marriage. There had to be an answer to this crisis.
There had to be direction and it had to come from God. He generously
provided step by step instruction which led, first to an intimate
relationship with God that completely replaced the fear and need of
man. This journey, in turn, resulted in a complete restoration of the
marriage. The information learned was lacking in many of the classes
taught to wives today. There has to be answers that speak to general,
as well as crisis situations. The answers found in scripture, combined with constant,
earnest prayer, led to the creation of this course and this ministry.
God faithfully developed a mind that would think and a heart that would act with grace and dignity. Through trials and error, He faithfully fulfilled this heartfelt request that continues to this day.
Is there a class for single men, husbands or engaged men?
John Batts created a class entitled “Call of Husbands.” It’s focus is the role of
husbands. Building upon an intimacy with God, issues specific to
marriage and dating are discussed and studied. This class formally led being led by John Batts, is cancelled due to a family move. There are several books available to be used by small group leaders. John is happy to answer any questions about his works or to offer help if needed.